Caleb-isms

Here are some funny momemts I have had with Caleb lately. He always makes me laugh!

Caleb was sitting in the recliner and rambling on and on about something as usual, but I wasn't really paying attention and was playing pee-a-boo with Avery. Finally he got so frustrated that he went, "Arrrrgggg! Mom! You're not even listening!! Now I am NEVER going to tell you how bouncy balls are made AGAIN!!!" My loss on that one I guess.

Caleb had been telling me and Josh about a game of memory that they had played at preschool. You know, where each player takes turns trying to flip over 2 cards at a time that match? So, Caleb is telling this story and he's really giving us every detail, but the premise was basically  that he was kicking everyone's butt in memory. Now, I was right off the bat, thinking, "Well, a lot of the kids in Caleb's class are handicapped to he probably WAS winning, because he does't have a developmental delay, so that probably wasn't quite fair.... but anyways, then Caleb says, "And I just kept getting matches! And do you know how I did it???" and I thought he was about to say, "Because I remembered where they were!" But no. He exclaimed, "Because! I COULD SEE THROUGH THE CARDS!!!!" *Big grin*

When we were watching Curious George, Caleb said something about the man in the yellow hat being George's dad. I tried to explain, "Well, he isn't actually his DAD... he is more like a really fun friend that helps take care of him..." Caleb looked at me and said, "Ohhh.... so he is his GRANDPA!" haha

Then last night before bed he randomly said, "Mom, Thank you for pushing Avery out of your tummy cause I really like her!" That's good to hear!

How cute is this girl???

Diane (Grandma Rhodes) took these pictures one day while babysitting. Soooo cute!

Halloween!

This year for Halloween, Gabe was a "cowboy sheriff", Caleb was a red Samurai Ninja (why???), and Avery was an adorable butterfly/caterpillar. I made her costume myself based on the idea of her little bedtime blanket/wrap that she loves. The wings wrapped around her and turned her into a caterpillar. Caleb's costume was bought at Wal-mart, and Gabe's was real cowboy clothes borrowed from his cowboy/indian cousin, Orrin (seriously... if you know us you will get that.)

So on Halloween day I went into Caleb's preschool for their party from noon to 1:30 then I went to Gabe's party to help from 1:30 to 2:15. Kristy watched Avery for me. (Thanks!) Then we came home, Josh got home from his K-9 training at about 4:00, then we ate dinner and went out trick-or-treating from about 5:30 to 7:30. We did our street with all our neighbors and then went to one other neighborhood in the Willowbrook subdivision. I would say the boys had fun but also didn't get totally obscene amounts of candy, which was good. They actually have it pretty much gone already! I reached in their pumpkins for a piece and came out with a handful of empty wrappers! :(

The other exciting news....
Josh had been looking online for mini vans for the past few weeks. We had kind of discussed it and decided that our time for a van was coming, but I wasn't in any hurry just yet. Our Highlander is all paid off and I was not looking forward to having a car payment again... and driving a van. But Josh kept looking online all the time and we were planning to spend about 16,000 on a 2008ish Toyota Sienna, so one day he saw one in Idaho Falls priced at $12,900 for an 08 with low miles and we got all excited. We jumped in our car and sped down there ready to buy it. But then.... we saw it. And it was not pretty. It was pretty UGLY! It was totally trashed inside and out. We were depressed. So then we decided to go get some Chick Fil A and call it a night. However, on our way there, we passed another car dealership that had a white Toyota Sienna parked off to the side. I told Josh to pull up so I could just quick run in and see if it was for sale and what the price was. Well.... four hours later.... we were signing paperwork on our new van. Crazy. I must say I am a pretty good negotiator though. We ended up driving out of there in one of their vans as a loaner so they have a few days to get our new van cleaned and ready. It was just traded in the day before we saw it so it hadn't even been detailed yet (and it was still cleaner than that other one we looked at!) I am excited because we are still not going to have a car payment. We basically traded our Highlander for a one year newer, 15,000 miles less Toyota Sienna van that will fit our family a lot better. After all the negotiations.... we are only paying about $700, including all the fees, taxes, registration, etc. So we are pretty excited. It isn't an 08 like we were planning on, but it's still really nice and it won't cause us to go into debt! Yay.

I need to find my camera now so I can post some pictures!

Crazy Snowstorm and Crazy Coupon Lady!

Before all the cute Halloween pictures (next post I am sure) I wanted to quick write about 2 things.

First, we had a freak snow storm last week that dropped probably about 5 inches of snow on us within a few hours. It was so insane and random. It had just barely dropped a few flakes the previous day and we were all like, "It snowed! That was weird! Glad it's over!" Then like, the very next day, it REALLY SNOWED! We were like, "Nooo! Not yet!" Well I was anyway. Gabe and Caleb couldn't wait to get on their snow gear and help dad shovel at 7:30 in the morning! But now it is Tuesday (so about 3 days later) and the grass is totally green again. There is like, a 5 by 5 inch patch of snow left by our front curb where it was piled up when we shoveled. It was 63 degrees today and is supposed to be 65 tomorrow for trick-or-treating. Who knows what the weather will ever do these days right? I also have a friend who flew out to NYC to visit someone last week and was supposed to return on Sunday. Now she has been stranded there with all the hurricane stuff! She hopes to get home in a couple days. Crazy weather. Anyways, so here are some pictures of the kids in the snow.

Second, it has long been a complaint of mine about the amount of money I spend on groceries. I feel like ever since we moved to Idaho, I have spent at least 30 percent more per month than I did in Wisconsin. It is really no lie. Groceries here are insane. Our little town of Rexburg doesn't have a Super Walmart and the two other grocery stores I think are really expensive. Back in Wisconsin I was able to shop at Aldi for a lot of stuff anf I never felt like groceries were that much. So, after being bored one day while Josh and the boys were gone on a road trip, I discovered this TV show called, "Extreme Couponing." It really made me say, "Whoa! How the heck do they do this? They save so much money!!!" I started asking around. "Hey? Have you couponed???" I asked all my neighbors. They looked at me like I was their 80 year old cat-lady neighbor. Like, "That's too much work. Who has the time to clip coupons??" So I had to dig a little deeper. There is this website I frequent that is basically like a craigslist for just Rexburg. I met this girl kind of by chance on there who knew how to coupon. She offered to give me a little lesson. I said, "Okay..." a bit hesitantly. So I went to this girl's house whom I have never met, paid her $10, and then sat there for 2 hours to learn about the crazy world of couponing. It was pretty entertaining. I was very intrigued. You would think it involves hours sitting with scissors, cutting millions of coupons from ads. But in this day of internet and blogs, you can pretty much spend 30 minutes on a Sunday night planning out your deals and save some BIG money by just cutting a few select coupons or printing them off from the internet. The ten dollars I spent on my "coupon consultant" was easily saved in my first trip to the store today. I posted a picture below of my big deals. I was pretty happy because I usually buy my shampoo for about $3 a bottle and I needed to stock up on some more. So 6 bottles of shampoo would typically cost me $18. Today I spent $21 and got 6 bottles of shampoo/conditioner.... and a whole lot more. Retail of itall on my receipt was about $65. Now, I am not saying I will instantly be a crazy coupon lady... but today definitely peaked my interest. It may either be something I try and then fizzle out at... deciding it's not worth it. Or... maybe... just maybe... this could be the start of a whole new adventure. And a crazy couponing addiction. ;)

Avery is 3 Months old!

My little girl is growing fast! (And seriously... she is a big girl for her age....) I actually had my mom pull out my baby book the other day to see what I was at this age and I guess I was even fatter! So there is still hope that she won't be obese when she grows up, although I think she will definitely be tall. I took her to get weighed at the doctor's yesterday for her official 3-month weight and she was 14 lbs, 11 ounces and is 25 inches tall. For sleepers, she is starting to wear 6 month, basically for the length. In most other clothes she is in the 3-6 month size. She is definitely getting meattier, and has some little rolls on her legs and has a little double chin going. I will have to post this one picture I took of Gabe holding her the other day. I said, "SAY CHEESE!" and Gabe pretended to be asleep (boys) and Avery did the hugest smile I have ever seen! It was great. You can see her double chin really well. :)

Gabe is really getting into the swing of things with first grade. We had his first parent teacher conference with Mrs. Henneke and she said he's getting over the first month anxiety he was having. He was missing us a lot during the "long day" (he said it was sooo long compared to kindergarten! I was like, "Well... get used to it") and so I sent a family picture of us for him to keep at his desk at school. Mrs. Henneke said, "That picture was a great idea. I only catch him pulling it out of his pocket to look at it a couple times a day now..." awww! He is so cute. He is definitely attached to his family I guess! But he has a lot of little friends and every time I go in to volunteer for center time, all the kids are nice and say, "You're Gabe's mom!" and we have a fun little time. I like kind of sneaking in there for centers so I can check everything out and know all the kid's myself in case any of them are mean to my little boy. Then I know exactly whose house to tp. jk. I am a little overprotective...

Caleb is also doing well in preschool. One of the moms in my neighborhood that works over there said, "Caleb and those other boys play so rough at recess!!!" I believe it. Caleb is my crazy tough little guy. Gabe is a little more sensitive. When Caleb gets mad it comes on fast and furious but is over within two minutes and he's on to the next thing. Gabe will stew things over in his head for a while and bring them up later. Like he'll say, "Mom... last night you snuggled with Caleb before bed but you only scratched my back for a minute. That isn't fair." He's all about keeping things fair! I tried to explain to him that I have snuggled with him for two extra years already since he is 6 and Caleb is 4 but that was no consolation.

Both of the boys love Avery and get a kick out of her now when they make funny faces at her and she actually smiles back at them. They say, "She is smiling! She is soooo cute!" I must agree. However, the past four nights she has woken up in the middle of the night at some point to want to eat. That is not cool. She seriously was sleeping from 9:30 to 7:00 am since she was about 3 weeks old. Now that she is waking up I am like, "What the heck??? Are you going backwards in development???" Or she is just getting huge and wants to eat all the time to stay full! I don't know. But pretty soon I think I can start rice cereal so maybe she was keep full longer.

Josh is doing well at work. He's busy with Truck (the dog) going to trainings and stuff sometimes, but it's actually pretty nice because he gets two extra days off a month and he gets to trade out his crappy shifts to go to day trainings in Idaho Falls once a week. So you'd think he'd be home a lot. But no... he decided to fill all his extra days off working at this bird hunting place about 30 min away. I think he actually just enjoys it. The money is just a bonus. He loads guns for these rich guys that fly out and stay at this lodge and hunt for three days. Then they give him a big tip at the end. So we've been using the extra money to try and build up some food storage and other stuff. (His "other stuff" was buying another gun. Why? I don't know. I guess it's a guy thing.)

So that is the latest with our family! I have been busy trying to lose the last of my baby fat with Zumba classes. I have been 5 times and am still struggling in the back row to keep up with the 80 year old women who is shaking it to the salsa moves in the front row! She must go every day. She is a pro. I am like, "Can you show me that move again???" It's fun.

Here's some pictures! The ones at the end are with Noah and Rowyn Rolph, our neighbors, (and maybe Caleb's future wife?) when we went out to the desert so the men could shoot their new guns.

 

 

Family Pictures

We had our family pictures taken last week for the first time (professionally) since well.... ever. Just for fun I am posting this one that was taken in this archway at the BYU-Idaho campus gardens. 8 and a half years ago, Josh and I stood in that very same arch and had our engagement pictures taken. Now here we are, back again, with our whole fam. Kind of fun! We look a little aged, but not too bad... :)

Sad day...

We lost a member of our family today... our little puppy girl, Zoe, passed away. It was so unexpected. We had gone to church from 9 am to noon and when we got home I let her outside in the field to do her business then hooked her up to her cable outside our sliding door like I've done a thousand times before. About an hour later, I was sweeping the floor after lunch and asked Josh to take the rug outside and shake it out for me. He called me from his cell about 10 minutes later and told me he had found Zoe and at first she just looked asleep, but he quickly realized something was wrong and she wasn't responding. He was on his way to a vet that he uses for the police dog. They don't know if she ate a rock or she got stung by a bee and had an allergic reaction, but she was barely breathing and there was really nothing they could do. We felt horrible and Gabe is pretty upset. But it was such a fluke thing. One second she's outside chewing on her frisbee, the next she was gone. I am just glad Josh was home or I would've been freaking out. Gabe asked us if he'll ever see her again. We told him we'll see her in puppy heaven someday. Rest in peace sweet puppy girl! :(

So proud of my boys!

Two little stories...

When I went to pick up Caleb from school on Friday, he had two big scratch marks on his face. His teacher said to wait a minute because she had to talk to me. I thought, "Oh no... Caleb's first fight..." but when she came over and told me what happened I was soooo surprised. She said that a little boy in one of the other classes who is one of the special needs kids was acting up at gym and got mad and clawed Caleb's face basically. But as soon as it happened (which I guess a lot of people saw) they said Caleb just turned right around and went and got the teacher and said, "That boy scratched me!!!" I was so proud of him for not smacking that boy back! The teacher said they couldn't believe it either. They said they all were talking about how Caleb was so patient and well-mannered and always uses his words. (and more words... and more words.... hah jk) But anyways, I was pretty proud of him! And very shocked and wondering why he doesn't react that way at home... :)

Gabe had to give his first talk in primary today. I helped him write the talk, which was one page written in his own handwriting, and the topic was "Honoring My Parents." He did sooo good! We practiced it a few times on Saturday night (right after he wrote it) and the hardest part for him was reading a scripture in Exodus, but he did really well. I went in to help him, but I really only had to help him with a couple of words. But the funniest part came afterwards. I know this girl who teaches the class of five-year-olds. She told Josh at a meeting after church that when Gabe first went up to the podium to start his talk, one of her little five-year-old girls whispered to her loudly, "He is SOOO HOT!" ahahahaha! I love it. What a ladies man. We told him this and he just got a very embarrassed look on his face and ignored us.

Avery's 2 month Check-up

We just got back from the doctor's office and Avery got all of her two month shots. She officiallu weighed 12 lbs, 14 ounces (big girl!) and is 23.75 inches long and is in the 90th percentile for both height and weight. I think her head circumference was 15 inches, which is actually a smaller percentile. I have an abnormally small head too. I got told that when I was trying on wigs at Disney World for princess costumes! But the doctor said he thinks she will be a tall girl. He also said she looked really good, and "doesn't even have the slightest diaper rash! A true princess." Caleb was along for the ride and he was helping "take care" of her while we got her checked out. He was a little concerned when they gave her the shots so I had to explain they will help keep her from getting sick.

Another quick funny Caleb story...

Anyone who knows Caleb knows he LOVES technology... iPods, the Wii, cameras... you name it. So the other day I had gotten Avery down for her nap and was really good about even putting her into her crib, hoping to get her used to that so she will sleep better. The bad thing was, I forgot about my video monitors high-tech feature that allows you to push a "talk" button and talk to your baby in their room. I had showed Caleb the baby monitors when we first got them and he knew all about how this worked. I found him about ten minutes after I laid her down, hiding in my room, holding the monitor and pressing that button down, saying, "Hi Avery! Hi baby Avery! How you doing???" When I walked in and saw him he looked at me with a smily face, knowing he'd been caught, and yes, Avery was staring into the camera wide-awake.

Sometimes I hate technology.

Caleb Starts Preschool

It's officially starting to feel like Fall with both of my boys in school now. Caleb had his first day of preschool last week Monday, September 10th. Mondays will be kind of a crazy day in our house for school. Gabe goes at 8:00 am, then Caleb goes at 12:00, then Gabe gets done at 1:25 (every other day it's 2:25), then Caleb gets done at 2:15. Good thing it's all right across the street! Avery and I go for lots of stroller walks that day! Don't ask me why Gabe gets done with school an hour early one day a week. That must be an Idaho thing. I had never heard of that but I guess in Ashton they get out early on Friday. In good ol' Wisconsin it was about 8:30 to 3:00 Monday through Friday! I also wish school started at 8:30 and went to 3:00 here. The waking up early thing is kind of killing me. Usually Avery wakes up sometime between 5:00 and 6:30. So depending on when she wakes up I try to squeeze in time to get myself ready before Gabe gets up at 7:00. Josh has been working 7:00 am to 5:00 pm the past two weeks so the hours between 5:00 to 8:00 am are definitely the most stressful times of my day.

Getting Gabe out the door has been a bit of a challenge lately. He doesn't seem to have the zest for learning that some kids do! I blame Josh. :) I was a nerd that loved school. I asked him if maybe he wanted to switch to a different class but he said, "No! I love Mrs. Henneke!" so I don't think it's that she's mean or anything. I think he just gets sick of being at school for 6 hours. They are really pushing the whole reading thing (that annoying little reading thing! ha ha) so then he gets home at 2:30 and it's time for homework, which seems to take at least 45 minutes.I would say he's a little behind with his reading compared to his classmates, so we really need to spend extra time working through books. Luckily Avery usually sleeps in the afternoon from about 1:30 to 4:30. So she's pretty easy while I help Gabe.

Caleb, on the other hand, LOVES to jump on the trampoline with me. So usually he asks "When can you jump on the trampoline with me?" at least 10 times a day. I can divide 90 percent of Caleb's questions into 3 categories: 1)"When can you jump with me?" 2) "Can you put on the Wii for me?" and 3)"Can you get me some hot chocolate?" He's a simple man. His needs are very predictable.

He went pretty easily to preschool on Monday. I don't worry about him too much there. I drop him off, he waves good-bye as he is already distracted playing with some toy. The only thing I worry about a little bit is that it's a preschool that's half for special needs kids and I worry that Caleb might have one of his Hulk bad temper moments and haul off and whack some handicapped kid that steals his toy someday. No calls from the teacher yet.... knock on wood.

Little Miss Avery is doing well. She is a pretty easy baby. She sleeps really well at night. I put her in her crib all swaddled up around 9:30. Sometimes she wakes up once around 4 am and eats and goes back to sleep but typically it's after 5 or 6. I think she gave me her first genuine smile yesterday. I was holding her and I smiled and said, "Can you give me a real smile?" and she smiled really big with her mouth open and even chuckled a little. It was super cute. I have her 2-month appointment this week so I will post stats then. I think, judging by how she is fitting into clothes, she weighs about 12 pounds. We will see! Her eyes still look blue. I wonder if they will stay that way. Her hair doesn't really seem to be falling out. Some people have said it looks a little lighter though. Her fingers still seem really long to me. Maybe that means she will be tall? Who knows. She is wearing size 3 month sleepers and almost into the ones that are 3-6 months. I think newborn usually ends at 8 pounds and three month ends at 12 pounds.  Anyways, she is growing fast!

We had a fun little day at Porter Park yesterday. Josh was doing this bird hunting thing and so the kids and I went and got snow cones and played. Then the boys stripped down to their shorts and ran around in the spray park like little ghetto kids. It was great. It may be the last day it is warm enough to do that and there were only like 3 other people there so I let them be rebels this once. Oh also, there's a funny picture of both the boys in Caleb's bed together. They fell asleep in there like that by their own choice! It was so cute. But then Caleb peed the bed about an hour later. Not so cute then. Haha.

Also, I think I have officially gotten rid of all my little boys clothes now. Between second-hand stores, garage sales and online postings I think I probably made about $400 on all of it. I just sold my jungle crib bedding stuff to a girl on Saturday for $80. It was a little sad to see the end of the baby boy stuff era but it's onto the girly things now! I also have a goal to put food storage and emergency prep supplies on the shelves where my 9 bins of baby stuff once were... I figure if Obama gets reelected we might as well all prepare for a total economic collapse. Sorry, had to slide in one political rant for Jesse. :)

So that is the report for this first half of September! It's getting a little chillier! At night it was down to 33 degrees the other day! Crazy! Here comes Winter! Noooo!!!!

                             "Turn out the lights, please."

                  "Save me from these crazy brothers!"

                                          Nose-picker!

Gabe's First Day and More

Well, we got home from Wisconsin on August 16th, which left about one week of Summer fun before Gabe had to start school on August 22nd. Caleb doesn't start his preschool until September 10th. He will be going to the same public school as Gabe that is right across the street from us, but his preschool is only MWF afternoons. He is pretty excited I think. They just built on to this school (even though the school is only about 5 years old) because they run the preschool for the whole city out of it and they needed extra classrooms. It is actually a preschool for the 3-5 year olds that qualify for special needs stuff for whatever reason (like Speech problems, need to learn English, developmental delays, etc.) before they start kindergarten but they have half of each class set aside for "peer role models" which is what Caleb will be. The good news is he isn't developmentally behind. The bad news is, that means we have to pay for him to attend because he doesn't qualify for the state to fund it. :( jk It is still cheaper than the other preschool we were sending him to last year and it will be waaay more convenient for me to have him at the same school as Gabe right across the street.

So anyways, in the past two weeks, we've done some more outdoor fun. It's still been pretty hot. Today we went and picked raspberries at this little family farm outside of Rexburg. We are going to make jam tommorow. We've had a lot of fun jumping on the trampoline in our backyard (yes I even have!) and hanging out with all the neighborhood kids. We have a pretty kid-saturated little 'hood. Lots of young families! Our little street is growing. I think there were about 7 houses on it when we moved in. Now there are about 16 plus all the townhomes and twin homes at the other end. It will be fun for all the kids to grow up together.

On the first day of school there was a little group of them that all walked over together. Gabe is in first grade and his two little friends, Noah and Michael, are in Kindergarten. It seems like there is this run of boys ages 4-8 and then it is all girls from 3 and down. (Except for Kohl... Kristy he will be a ladies' man!)

So far Gabe likes school I think. Of course, that hasn't stopped him from trying to play the sick card a couple times already. We're on to him though... he always comes home smiling and happy and we're like, "Aren't you glad you went???" I think the hardest part for him is getting out of bed at 7 am. He is definitely not used to that. Neither am I for that matter! It is expecially fun when I have been up during the night taking care of a baby! When Josh is home he helps a lot in the morning with Gabe, but he starts working the 7 am to 5 pm this Monday - Thursday all month, so I think Gabe will be walking to school with our neighor.

Avery has been growing so fast. She is wearing 3 months clothes and starting to get a couple rolls on her legs finally! She has so many cute clothes that she is starting to grow out of already that were newborn size. She is eating about every 3 hours and is completely on bottles now. Part of me feels a little guilty about that but I swear, my sanity was at stake. So I think it's better to have a sane mom than a crazy, stressed-out, sleep-deprived one from all the pumping and so on... Breastfeeding and I have just never been good friends. Oh well. Life goes on.

I feel a little spoiled about her nightimes already. I usually have her down in her bed by about 10:30 pm and she will usually sleep until about 5 am.  She has a bath around 7:30 and dozes sometimes afterward but I try to keep her somewhat awake and around me in the evening hours so she gets tired by 9:30 or 10. Then I can get a good 7 hours stretch from 10 to 5 sometimes. This of course is not ALWAYS the case, but on a good night. During the day she likes to either lay on a blanket on her back while Caleb harrasses her or be in her swing or stroller if we are outside. I also bought a front-carrier today to use while we were raspberry picking, which she liked and slept in the whole time.

We are sort of figuring out life now with two crazy little boys and a newborn princess. It is going pretty good most days. :) I also have to post separately these super cute pictures that my neighbor took. She was only 6 days old when we took them so she's already changed a lot!