September is always a crazy month for us, but this year it has been crazier than ever before. Josh is working his new position at the police department as a Lieutenant, I am working from 8am-4pm as a teacher (and then usually 6pm-9pm at home grading things, creating content for online students, and emailing parents about students who have missing work from being absent), Gabe is doing a club soccer team, and Caleb is doing grid kid football. Avery isn't doing dance this fall because I really didn't know what was going to happen with Covid and I didn't want to end up paying for something that was going to get cancelled. She isn't sad about it either. She's very content to come home from school, do homework with her college girl tutor for an hour, and then go play outside with her friend until dark!
On a typical day, I head to the junior high with the boys at 7:45am and Josh takes Avery to Burton for school. Then at 2:30, Avery' s school ends and she walks across the street from the school where our college girl helper, Matilyn, is waiting for her. Matilyn walks her home, gets her a snack, does some reading and math, and then just hangs out with her until the boys get home. They choose to ride the bus home at 3:30 when their school ends because it gets them home a little sooner than it would if they waited for me. They usually get home from the bus at about 3:55. Then Matilyn leaves and then Josh and I usually both get home somewhere around 4:15 or 4:30.
Then we usually have about thirty minutes to try and throw some food at Caleb and Gabe, get soccer cleats, shin guards, football pads, mouthguard, and water bottles organized, and then Josh usually heads out the door with Caleb to his football practice at 5:15 and I take Gabe to his soccer practice at 5:30. If Avery is playing with one of her neighbor friends (Maggie or Kendalin or Lucy or Soleil) sometimes I will leave her if it's okay with whatever mom is home, but usually she will ride along.
Then I typically come home, find some food for me and Avery, work on grading whatever assignments I haven't gotten to during the school day, input some assignments into the online Schoology program for whatever students where absent that day (usually about 20 percent of each of my four classes) and try to lesson plan what I'm going to actually TEACH in person for the NEXT day. It's a blast. I'm not feeling overwhelmed AT ALL. Just kidding. I totally am. I keep telling Josh, "We will see if I do this next year." The principal has even come and talked to me and basically begged me to come back next year and said, "Please don't burn yourself out. You're doing a great job. I promise it will be easier after this first year. You'll have all your lesson plans and it will only get easier." But right now, especially with all this COVID CRAP, it is SO HARD.
Then here are some pictures of the first day of school on August 26!
On Labor Day, we went to Wade Lake with our friends the Summers. It was pretty packed there, but we still had fun swimming and kayaking around with the kids. Then we brought hot dogs and snacks and cooked them over a campfire for dinner and came home at about 7:00.
Other news with Gabe... Gabe is able to start drivers ed in a few months, which is so crazy. He actually could start it September 23 (because that's his 14.5 birthday) but so many classes were already full. They got really behind over the last six months with Covid and now every 15 year old is scrambling to get in. So we bought a car in preparation for Gabe! Right now it is mostly just sitting in our garage. We don't usually need it because I drive the Buick and Josh drives his police car.
Gabe has also been doing well with his soccer team. At first, he was wondering if he made the right choice by not doing the JV team this fall as a freshman. But the JV coach ended up taking every single boy that tried out, meaning they ended up with 27 boys on the JV team alone. Only 11 can play at a time, so that means that usually most of the freshmen boys sit the bench. The coach is also somewhat obsessed with soccer, and if you try to have a life outside of soccer in August-October, he basically tells you, "You chose something besides soccer," and then you NEVER get to play. I'm not really excited for Gabe next year if he decides to play high school soccer. This team that he's on right now has been such a good experience. I am so glad he decided to do this one. His coach, Freddy, is a hispanic college student from BYUI and he LOVES coaching these boys. He is so nice and so committed. They haven't lost one single game out of the five they have played so far. Hopefully, they can keep it up and have an undefeated season! They have three games left and then the finals. Gabe usually makes 2-4 goals per game. He is one of their "strikers" and he typically is the one shooting the ball at the goal.
Its kind of funny because the league has this new rule that you can't win by more than six goals and if you score a seventh one, then the other team automatically wins. So they've had games before where they are up by six and then they just have to basically pass the ball in circles around the other team, but not try and score. I feel like it's just a pain because they game gets so boring. They might as well call the game then if they are up by that much! But instead we just have to sit there and watch them play monkey in the middle and pass the ball around the boys from the other team. I need to get a good picture of Gabe in his soccer uniform, but it hasn't happened yet. Here is what I have so far. The kid standing next to him is a hispanic kid named Julian and he is small, but mighty. He can dribble the ball around anyone! lol Gabe is also the tallest one on his team, so they just look funny standing by each other.


Caleb started out his football season really strong and they were winning games like 39-12 and 36-7. Then all the crazy other coaches from other teams started coming and FILIMG our games so they could know our plays! It's ridiculous how crazy some dads get into this who coaching thing. So this last game that we played yesterday, we lost. They literally knew every play. Our coach was like, "Sorry guys, but I don't have time to go to these other team's games and film them so we know their plays. If anyone else wants to, you can." I don't blame him though! That's insane. But either way, Caleb is enjoying it and he loves being on the team. At homecoming last week, all the little seventh grade boys asked girls at school to wear their football jerseys on Friday. Caleb asked this girl named Briley, who has been his friend for a while and has worn his jersey a lot. I guess they are "good friends." She seems like a nice girl, so that's good. I have lots of Caleb's teachers come up to me at school and tell me how funny Caleb is and how much they love having him in class. One teacher said, "Your son has lots of confidence." Yup! That's Caleb. He's never shy.




Avery participated in this cheerleading camp that the varsity cheerleaders put on. It's a fundraiser that they do every year. You pay $15 for your daughter to go and then the older girls teach them a dance. They practiced for a week and then performed at a half time of a high school football game. It was a beautiful night and Avery loved being out on the field at halftime. Avery also has become good friends with the new girl that moved in next door in July. They have four daughters and they are all very nice. The one that is Avery's age is named Maggie. They dressed up as twins one day for school during spirit week. Here are some pictures of Avery!



Zeus (the new dog that we got last month) has fully infiltrated himself into our home. He is totally a social dog, way more than Drax ever was. He wants to be wherever we are all the time. He loves sneaking on the couch or anyone's beds when we aren't looking. He somehow has convinced us that he should sleep in the house at night instead of outside in his kennel. I don't know how we ended up having this huge indoor house dog. He is not the size of dog that should be a house dog. But he's so nice and so friendly that it's hard to turn him away. He cries when we put him outside in his kennel alone. It's like an ultimate punishment for him to be away from people.



Here are a few pictures to summarize my teaching so far. I had a kid wear a giant WW2 type gas mask to school one day. I didn''t feel like I could deny him his right to wear a mask, so I just took a picture instead. Then on the Friday of homecoming, they dismissed school early at 11:10, which made each class period only 25 minutes long instead of 70. So I did what ant good teacher would do and we played games the whole time. Here is a picture of them playing "heads up seven up" (a classic game from the nineties that I used to love!) You have to try and guess who put your thumb down. It did require them all touching each other's hands, but I figured, "You know what? They've been sharing laptops for the past two weeks soooo.... is it really any different?" Covid can just shove it for all I care. There is this one teacher who has been so concerned about everyone in her class wearing a mask every day. She even sits in her classroom, ALONE, and wears her mask while she works. It's actually insane. But guess who JUST tested positive for Covid? Her! hahaha I know I shouldn't laugh. But I find it ironic that of all people, she's the one to get Covid. I guess that mask really saved her!
Most of my students really are super great. I even went through the Freddy's drive-thru one day with Gabe and I don't know who was in front of me, but when I got up there to pay at the window, the worker said, "Your meal has already been paid for by one of your English students. They told me to tell you that you are a great teacher." Awww... see? They aren't all little turds. lol Most of them really are great kids and make class really fun. Hopefully, this whole Covid thing will get under control and we can remain in school. All of the BYU-I college kids returned last week and our numbers have been soaring. We went from having about 30 active cases in the summer (when the students weren't here) to over 200 now. This last week has been really bad. Every evening, the mayor stands on the corner of Main Street by this sign we have and announces our numbers for the day. I am just wondering if we will stay in school if the numbers continue to rise. So far, it hasn't been bad because the majority of people who are getting it are young and healthy. But if our small hospital would start filling up all the beds in the ICU, I think that is when school would go online again.
Right now, we just started our "spud harvest break." They were planning on us being out of school for one week from October 2-9. Then last Wednesday, they made the announcement that they were extending the harvest break to TWO weeks and that it would start on September 28 and go until October 13. All the teachers found out along with the kids! I'll admit, a collective "HOORAY!" may have been screamed by both myself and the students on Wednesday during class when we found out. lol So I am going to try and use these next two weeks to lesson plan, get more things put on my website (in case of a shut down) and just try to sleep in and enjoy some time to breathe! I feel like we haven't had much of that this month!




Lastly, as if life isn't overwhelming enough right now for the Rhodes family, Josh just got called to the high council in our church and I just got called to be in the young women's presidency. (It's as if they think I love being around teenagers or something? lol) When they asked if I would do it, I answered, "Well, you know, life is a little crazy right now, but we will figure out a way to make it work!" So, wish us luck!